When it comes to dating, first impressions count. Whilst looks are by no means everything, our attitudes and identities are often revealed to potential partners by what we wear.  Picking the right outfit adds confidence to any first date. Knowing what works well, and what is best left in the wardrobe, can be the first step in creating that all important first impression.

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Clothes that don’t Fit

Fashion is an expression of identity and everyone will have their own take on what works best. If there is just one universal rule, however, it is to make sure that what you wear fits. Squeezing into undersized fabrics is unflattering. Likewise, losing your body shape beneath masses of baggy material is unlikely to turn heads. Get properly measured; if it doesn’t fit then it doesn’t deserve a place in your wardrobe.

Knowing your body shape

People come in all shapes and sizes. Understanding your body shape is the first step in finding flattering, proportionate clothing. As can be seen on the descriptions of most dating websites UK bachelors value personality and shared interests; it isn’t all about the looks. But being confident and well presented does make a big difference on the first date.

Frumpy or too Young

Looking good and feeling great is all about finding what is best for you. As women get older, finding age appropriate fashion can prove stressful. Needless to say that short skirts and strappy tops, when paired with an older face, might not give Mr Right the best impression. But backing away from the ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ scenario, many women go too far in the other direction. Getting older does not mean giving up, and adapting current fashion trends is the key to looking younger. Covering problem areas such as the upper arms or knees is best tackled with layering. Clothes can be both flattering and fitted, and don’t shy away from the odd splash of colour. Older women can pull off tailored and sophisticated outfits easier than their younger counterparts, so there’s no excuse for not aging gracefully.

Over-formal or Underdressed

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In preparing for a first date, knowing where you’ll be going is vital. Surprises can be romantic but at least get a rough indication of what you will need to wear; whether dining, drinks or dancing is on the cards. Being overdressed might make you seem too formal or eager, whilst being underdressed in a top venue could kill your confidence. When uncertain, keep it simple. Monochrome can work for formal or intimate settings. If you’ve a penchant for vibrant colours, choose a simple cut dress and accessorise to add interest. Layering and accessorising is the key to a versatile wardrobe, allowing for a sneaky change to match the setting if you really need to.

Back to Basics

Surprisingly, it isn’t all about what’s on show. What you wear underneath that dress can make a drastic impact to your appearance. A wealth of products is now available on the market, from the tried and tested push up bra to slimming shorts and underwear. If you need a little non surgical adjustment and are short for time, properly fitted and supportive underwear can slim, lift and shape your figure.

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With the perfect outfit chosen, it’s time for the main event. First impressions are important, but hopefully your date will last beyond those first few moments. Relax, and remember the purpose is to enjoy yourself. If you met your match online then this might be the first encounter. As London and Brighton singles @ eHarmony UK have known, it is an exciting chance to get to know your date for the first time face to face. Be confident, be relaxed, and have fun.